I am a 25-year-old man and really love my girlfriend, who is 21. The problem is she no longer wants to use a condom when we have s.e.x. When I ask why, she accuses me of cheating on her with other women, because she says a faithful man wouldn’t mind. What can I do?
Dear Young Man
This is a good opportunity for the two of you to take your relationship to the next level and get tested. It will benefit you both and build trust and transparency. It will help you understand if your girlfriend’s needs in the bedroom are being met.
Having unprotected s.e.x leaves you open to Aids, s.e.xually transmitted disease and most importantly, can result in an unplanned pregnancy.You have the power to make the right decision on how to protect the two of you.