Here’s how to get an O from a BJ

If you like to play with power dynamics, lie on your back and let him mount your mouth, with his head pointed toward your feet. If he supports his body weight with his arms, you are free to do what you please with your hands. Work your fingers between your legs and go to town — any additional moans you may let out are an added bonus for him in this position. When you’re surrendering control of the depth of penetration, make sure you let him know if he’s going too deep or you just don’t like it or whatever. This one is ideal for people who enjoy rough play.